Love...you get what you put into it.

Sometimes love can be very tricky. It can take a lot of hard work, focus, determination, dedication and commitment towards having a successful relationship. There is no magic pill to administer to each other that will make it easy without putting in the necessary faith, energy, sincerity, loyalty
and honesty that is needed. Love is a two way street. Unless you plan on dating yourself. First
and foremost God should always be first in any and everything that you do. Always keep the lines of communication open. Be willing to talk about and listen to one anothers issues or problems. Try not to take it personal when your significant other may say something that you may not want to hear. 

Both have to put ego's and pride aside in order to reach a resolution. Stop automatically thinking that you are under attack because your partner may be calling you out on some of your bull. As adults we should be mature enough to have sensible conversations without all of the name calling, cursing and yelling. We all can be guilty of any and all of this often at times. It's a no brainer that no one should ever under no circumstance become physical towards one another. Hell' they teach you in preschool not to put your hands on others. As I have always heard...if he or she needs to put their hands on you then they do not need you. Point blank and the damn period. It's as simple as that! Some people are weak by what they perceive to be love, or the fact of being alone. 

We were born alone so why is it so scary of the mere thought of being alone. We should never need another person to validate us or define what we are worth. We have to love ourselves enough to have the courage to walk away from any and all volatile situations! It always comes full circle right back to confidence, strength, and the sense of knowing your self worth. You can not be afraid to
go after what you want and deserve in life or what you may require in a life partner. When starting a new business you may seek out a trust worthy, loyal, and reliable business associate that will help take your business to the next level of success. So we have to treat and respect our personal lives just the same. You're not going to just entrust your money in some dumb, blind ass fool right? So why would you give your love, heart, energy, time, body and soul to an unworthy ignorant human being? 

Two people should always be evenly yolked complementing each other melodically. The truth I speak here is for all eyes and ears, let them see and hear the truth. This isn't just pertaining to one particular sex, nor group or sexual orientation. Loyalty is a huge responsibility that people seem to struggle with these days. Everywhere you look or turn somebody is tip, dipping and slipping all over the place That's another way I like to say Cheating. Too many people want their cake and two scoops of ice cream on the side with a glass of milk to wash it all down! It does not take more than two individuals to be satisfied. God created one man and one woman proving it takes only two. 

I'm not saying that to exclude any one sexual preference I'm an open minded person and believe that 
your sexual preference is just that...your preference. I am simply stating that yes two people can have a worthwhile, completely fulfilling, happy and committed monogamous relationship without banging up and down the coast. That's not to say that sex isn't an important component to a healthy

relationship, because it's extremely important. You can't be sexually restricted and think that will keep your partner satisfied. A fire doesn't just start on its own, it takes a spark of some kind to ignite the flame. Don't be afraid to dive into exploratory sessions, you have to put in the effort if you want to enjoy the rewards. Love requires maintenance, If you can't be free to express yourself then maybe
you need to find someone else. 

You both should be comfortable enough with one another to be sexually free to experience uninhibited spellbinding sexual pleasures. Both climbing the mountains of ecstasy, jumping deep into the orgasmic lake of paradise without fear of judgement from one another. The end all is this

people...it takes a lifetime to reach perfection. There is no perfect person to create the perfect
relationship. It takes two mature consenting adults doing any and everything towards making their relationship work. While never taking each other for granted or forgetting to fulfill each others
needs, but forsaking all others. Happiness can be achieved when two people can surrender all
selfishness, ego's, manipulation, laziness, and pride putting it to the side. Always once again for the believers, keep God first in all you do. Thanks to everyone that took the time to read this, I hope you've gathered something from this.

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Naomi P saying...love ain't worth it if it's not worth sacrificing to maintain it.