Sincerely to my image, WOMAN

When you look at me what do you see? I am more than just my body. Do you really see me? You say you do but I clearly can tell that you don't. It's obvious when you look at me you see someone you can lay with, someone you can penetrate her cortex and have sex with. 

You don't see me at all! You see someone that can bare your kids, you see someone that can cook your meals. You see someone that can clean for you someone that will obey your rules. You don't see someone that can contribute anything meaningful in this life. I am not content with only being just a wife.

So you expect me to be home when you get there. So you expect me to make sure all the food is cooked and prepared. You expect me to shut my mouth and just be pretty as I fix my hair I become giddy. Dizzy Dizzy because you don't want me to be myself cause You say I'm not a lady. How in the hell do you know what a real lady is? Please shut your fucking mouth and stay out of my business. 

I can't tell you how to be you, so don't tell me how to be me. But we don't address the fact that you become hypnotized by watching my booty. So you call me a HOE because I like my skirt short yet my counterparts can't even walk to school without being snatched and raped by you!

You violate my rights and even my body on some spiritual high cause you seem to think it'll bring you closer to GOD. What if women did the same to you, your ass would run and cry! To tell everyone that has an ear just to hear yourself SHOUT... I'm a MAN this much is clear.  

As the old saying goes what is good for the goose is good for the gander STOP don't fill my head with your bullshit propaganda. When you look at me what do you see? Frankly i'm not really sure anymore because the world has destroyed me.

 Sincerely to my image, WOMAN.

"I MAKE NO APOLOGIES FOR WHO I AM"

Why does the world focus on my flaws as a women? Why am I objectified on the tv screen, on the radio, in my own home...hell in the world period? Am I not human? No one is perfect. I am happy in this skin. I am beautiful at any size. I give birth to life, I raise our families. I tend to our husbands needs, I even raise kids as a single mother. I run major corporations and make hard decisions everyday.

Why belittle me when I am the foundation and glue that holds everything together. I may have stretch marks, cellulite, baby pouch, fatty thighs or a big ass. None of that compares to my heart is strong, my mind is educated. I battle criticism every damn day without a tear shed. I paint my face with a smile even though my heart aches. I am more than my looks, my body and a homemaker. 

I am a strong beautiful intelligent being...I am a perfectly flawed woman.  I make no apologies for who I am. I know that I am an endangered species. This world needs to stop tearing me down and try building me up.

Women are far more than the world gives us credit for!

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My Future On My Terms!



One of my favorite quotes; when life gives you lemons just make lemonade. Maybe your puzzled of how random that quote just was but there is always a method to my madness. 

In my life I have experienced some difficult trials and tribulations. 
I am blessed to have the ability to find inspiration through most of my hard times. Born to an abusive drug addicted mother and alcoholic father, I found myself kicked out on the streets and homeless by age 14. 

The streets provided a rude awakening for such an impressionable young lady. Attacked many times on different levels then I care to remember. I shouldn't be here...I should not be alive right now. 
I know God saved me! He chose me to share my story with whomever had ears and an open heart to receive the message. 

A message of hope, one of inspiration filled with the words of a survivor.  I am no one's victim. I made up in my mind early on that I would rewrite my future. I refuted the life I was force fed as a child. In and out of foster care like a child on a bad roller coaster ride. I made it my mission to receive my education by any means necessary. I put myself through college, received 3 different degrees.

 An entrepreneur by design. I started my company Diamonds in The Ruff Body Imagery because of my passion for fashion. Fashion is where I have always found my voice of expression through my own personal style. 

No longer will I sit idle on the sidelines looking dainty and pretty. I will use my voice, my story and power to guide those in the world that feel lost. The powerless, abused, homeless, afraid, abandoned and judged. This is for everyone that life may have dealt a bad hand. I prevailed not because of handouts but because of my will power to rise above the bullshit I am a victim speech that most people fall back on. 

Victimized by many...but I sing no victim song. My song I sing loud and proud is one of survival and wisdom. I rose above my situations because I refused to become just another victim of circumstances. My motivation was to show those that counted me out that even a dark horse still has the opportunity to comeback strong and win the race!
   

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Get it together for the new year

Thank you to Sherri Kolade over at candgnews for the opportunity and recognition. I believe in the work I do by transforming lives from the inside out and encouraging those that require just a bit more! I promote the action and power of giving back. We still have more work to do in and around the community and with God's help we will get it done! Thank you so much....

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Get it together for the new year.

Romance is in the air......

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Gold jewelry
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Nars cosmetic
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Business in the Spring.....

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BCBGMAXAZRIA wide leg jumpsuit
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Black white shoes
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Spring fashion 2015 mens collection.

House of Fraser is a great designer for you to step up your business or casual look for the cool in you.

Too kool for school in these Sapatos Tenis Masculine 
canvas sneakers.

Get your prep on in these looks 
courtesy of Flamboo.info.

For your casual side Mens Fashion canvas shoes 
from Ali express.

How about some preppy urban street style
from designer Umit Benan.

Get ready to spring ahead in your fashion.

I know some of you probably can not tell right now that spring is right around the bend. Snow still falling and the wind chill is constantly dropping. That doesn't mean you can't get a head start on gearing up for your spring fashion looks.

The secret to any great outfit is coloring. Here's a guide of springs 2015 hottest color schemes for men and women.

Designer B. Michael serving up retro realness 

with a side of  flower power. 

         
                              








New York Fashion week had plenty to leave you gagging for Ermanno Scervino collection.

 




















Designers like Zac Posen, DVF, Zimmerman and Tadashi Shoji are amongst the few that pushed the edge with bright bold colors on trend for this year.
     

Celebrities that rocked their hottest looks at New York fashion week. 

Rihanna slays with legs
in Adam Selman.

Nicki Minaj giving us body
In Alexander Wang.

Brown Statement: Reports About Bobbi Kristina’s Condition Are “False”

Brown Statement: Reports About Bobbi Kristina’s Condition Are “False” 

Bobby Brown' Father of Bobbi Kristina Brown has just released a statement concerning false reports about Bobbi Kristina’s condition. Brown is saying different media outlets such as Tmz, Daily mail and more is reporting false information. Brown says, this type of reporting is illegal and will be handled at a later time. Family is asking for prayers and privacy during this difficult time.



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Bobbi Kristina’s Family Reportedly Discussing Funeral Plans (DETAILS)

Bobbi Kristina’s Family Reportedly Discussing Funeral Plans (DETAILS) |



Sad news today. Prognosis Given by doctors is grim. Family is by Browns side staying hopeful and optimistic. Bobbi Kristina family is discussing funeral plans for the 21 year old. Things aren't going smooth according to TMZ. Nick Gordon expected to face reckless driving charges dating back to 2012. A warrant has been issued for Gordon's arrest According to daily mail.

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Foul Play Suspected In Bobbi Kristina Incident, More (DETAILS)

Foul Play Suspected In Bobbi Kristina Incident, More (DETAILS 


New updates are coming in about the suspicious circumstances surrounding the fatal bathtub incident that has left Bobbi Kristina Brown in a coma for a week now. Earlier news outlets reported that drugs may have been found in Brown's home shared with her boyfriend Nick Gorden. 

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Bruce Jenner Involved In Fatal Car Crash (DETAILS) | Global Grind

Reports says, One woman was dead on the scene. 

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Love...you get what you put into it.

Sometimes love can be very tricky. It can take a lot of hard work, focus, determination, dedication and commitment towards having a successful relationship. There is no magic pill to administer to each other that will make it easy without putting in the necessary faith, energy, sincerity, loyalty
and honesty that is needed. Love is a two way street. Unless you plan on dating yourself. First
and foremost God should always be first in any and everything that you do. Always keep the lines of communication open. Be willing to talk about and listen to one anothers issues or problems. Try not to take it personal when your significant other may say something that you may not want to hear. 

Both have to put ego's and pride aside in order to reach a resolution. Stop automatically thinking that you are under attack because your partner may be calling you out on some of your bull. As adults we should be mature enough to have sensible conversations without all of the name calling, cursing and yelling. We all can be guilty of any and all of this often at times. It's a no brainer that no one should ever under no circumstance become physical towards one another. Hell' they teach you in preschool not to put your hands on others. As I have always heard...if he or she needs to put their hands on you then they do not need you. Point blank and the damn period. It's as simple as that! Some people are weak by what they perceive to be love, or the fact of being alone. 

We were born alone so why is it so scary of the mere thought of being alone. We should never need another person to validate us or define what we are worth. We have to love ourselves enough to have the courage to walk away from any and all volatile situations! It always comes full circle right back to confidence, strength, and the sense of knowing your self worth. You can not be afraid to
go after what you want and deserve in life or what you may require in a life partner. When starting a new business you may seek out a trust worthy, loyal, and reliable business associate that will help take your business to the next level of success. So we have to treat and respect our personal lives just the same. You're not going to just entrust your money in some dumb, blind ass fool right? So why would you give your love, heart, energy, time, body and soul to an unworthy ignorant human being? 

Two people should always be evenly yolked complementing each other melodically. The truth I speak here is for all eyes and ears, let them see and hear the truth. This isn't just pertaining to one particular sex, nor group or sexual orientation. Loyalty is a huge responsibility that people seem to struggle with these days. Everywhere you look or turn somebody is tip, dipping and slipping all over the place That's another way I like to say Cheating. Too many people want their cake and two scoops of ice cream on the side with a glass of milk to wash it all down! It does not take more than two individuals to be satisfied. God created one man and one woman proving it takes only two. 

I'm not saying that to exclude any one sexual preference I'm an open minded person and believe that 
your sexual preference is just that...your preference. I am simply stating that yes two people can have a worthwhile, completely fulfilling, happy and committed monogamous relationship without banging up and down the coast. That's not to say that sex isn't an important component to a healthy

relationship, because it's extremely important. You can't be sexually restricted and think that will keep your partner satisfied. A fire doesn't just start on its own, it takes a spark of some kind to ignite the flame. Don't be afraid to dive into exploratory sessions, you have to put in the effort if you want to enjoy the rewards. Love requires maintenance, If you can't be free to express yourself then maybe
you need to find someone else. 

You both should be comfortable enough with one another to be sexually free to experience uninhibited spellbinding sexual pleasures. Both climbing the mountains of ecstasy, jumping deep into the orgasmic lake of paradise without fear of judgement from one another. The end all is this

people...it takes a lifetime to reach perfection. There is no perfect person to create the perfect
relationship. It takes two mature consenting adults doing any and everything towards making their relationship work. While never taking each other for granted or forgetting to fulfill each others
needs, but forsaking all others. Happiness can be achieved when two people can surrender all
selfishness, ego's, manipulation, laziness, and pride putting it to the side. Always once again for the believers, keep God first in all you do. Thanks to everyone that took the time to read this, I hope you've gathered something from this.

Please ask questions or comment below.

Naomi P saying...love ain't worth it if it's not worth sacrificing to maintain it.

Bobbi Kristina Brown Found Unresponsive In Her Bathtub (DETAILS) | Global Grind

Bobbi Kristina Brown Found Unresponsive In Her Bathtub (DETAILS) | Global Grind

Prayers are with her and her family. Everyone is hoping Bobbi Kristina does not meet the same fate as her late great mother, The Iconic Whitney Houston.

Is the 30's the new 20's or nah?

Everyone keeps saying to me that I should totally write a blog, but I'm not entirely sure on what to say. I believe it's because I have to much to say actually. A little background on myself: I am a Personal Stylist, Motivational Speaker, Life and Relationship Coach and now Blogger amongst other things. A true jack of all trades, a lady that wears many hats. I own my own company. Enough about thine self and back to why I'm here. I didn't want to go to far back or get to deep. Shit could get a Lil slippery you know. Plus we just met. I can't just get nasty booty naked and we just met! "Just joking" Everybody knows you have to buy me dinner first before clothes hit the floor. (In my Phaedra Parks voice).

Let me put a disclaimer in here before continuing: I am not for the faint at heart, easily offended,the timid nor docile by nature. I say what everybody thinks sometime or another and just don't have the balls or gumption to say it. I keep it real huney. 

For example; why when us girls were young we always over heard our mothers, aunt's, or grandma's talking about how they were so relieved to not have their little monthly visits anymore. If you can catch my drift. Then us being all young and naive' we dreamed about the day when we would stop getting our much unwelcome totally inconveniencing monthly visits. Shit now I clap, twerk, even throw a damn party once in a while when I see mine! Cause I now know the truth that mom was too damn scared to say. You know back then everybody was sipping on that we no talking sweetest taboo juice and shit. I can promise you I am not so conservative, because I'm going to spill lady tea right damn now. 

Going through those life changes ain't no damn joke hunty! What changes you may be thinking? Those over 30 damn changes, the changes where were always falling asleep. We begin noticing that were growing unsightly hair in some weird ass places, Like on our breast (Yuck). On our toes, on our face especially the chin! Try to recall the first time you looked in the mirror thinking you to damn sexy and then "drum roll" three long curly disgusting hairs are just chilling right there on your damn chin. Oh my! The irony of it all, the horror. The endless thoughts of am I turning into a dude, because I have noticed my voice suddenly has more bass. If I shave it will it return with a vengeance leaving me a human Chia pet? Hell, what's the future of my lady bits...will they suddenly morph into man parts? Will someone mistake me for my husband? Literally just one scary damn question after the next. Wrapped up in a blanket of resentment towards mom for not telling the candid truth. Making you think having no menstruation every month meant celebration time. 

The true question and only reality that matters above all this is...OMG, how is this going to affect my sex life? Well let me tell you how. Remember when you were young and carefree? When you could stay up all night long, then head straight to work? When you would hang out and get your drink on, then unleash the dirty freak nasty beast deep deep inside you? (The liquor freak). 

Yes, you remember those golden days; you recall the beast I'm referring to. The little freaky get all kinds of nasty in between the sheets beast. The beast that could go 4 straight hours at a time and didn't require a potty break, a snack break not even a sip of water break! Well I'm glad you can remember the time like on some "Micheal Jackson" shit. Because in your thirties that stamina begins to fade away! For example: you out with your boo, y'all sippin' on that grown up juice as I say to my daughter. Both of you are starting to get that look in your eyes, that look of I'm going to freak you so good your toes will curl. Just like the wicked witch in "The wizard of oz", when the house fell on dhat ass. You whispering, he's whispering all the naughty little things you both are going to do when you get home. 


He undresses faster than you, since you obviously have an entire beauty costume to remove. He slips into the bed waiting to see you in your birthday suit. He dozes off, you jump into the sack next thing you know...you fast asleep in a drunken slumber. Because suddenly liquor doesn't have the same affect on you as it use to. LIQUOR...the new NyQuil for older folks to help you get your Zzz's. Next thing you know, you awake at 5am because your bladder is on 10. You chillin' on the toilet trying to recall if you bust it wide open or not, meaning did y'all get it in. You speeding on the toilet because you can't remember one damn thing, dying for your boo to tell you all the dirty deeds. Suddenly after you beg your man to dish the tea he looks you dead in your eyes...we didn't do none of that freaky deeky shit we was plotting & planning last night. 

Hell we both fell asleep! He mad as hell, and your ass pissed off because you missed your opportunity to blame your inner porn star on the alcohol. No turn up time for neither of you, since it ain't often y'all have freedom no how with a preschooler running wild. Now that's some of that cold bitter reality that just put on a pair of steel toe boots and dropped kicked you square dead in your 30+ years face. 


It isn't all bad when you get older, at least your ass take the time and think before you respond to bullshit. A.k.a."Drama". Probably because your brain now processes the information first, instead of your fists doing that for you! LMFAO

Pause for now. Keep it sexy, keep it stylish and keep it real.



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